Chemin Dans Les Bles a Pourville by Claude Monet
REMEMBERING MY PARENTS
by Dr. Ernest C. Marshall
Some of my earliest memories are of happy hours spent ambling in the
outdoors. Walking home from elementary school I often tarried in Lowry
Woods to swing on grape vines, watch for rabbits, or lie daydreaming by a
pond shimmering with dragonflies and watersriders. After chores I was
usually off to a willows-shaded pond to go crawdad fishing or try to catch a
bull frog or garter snake.
I have these cherished boyhood recollections because of how my parents
raised me. In my growing-up-days kids didnıt have indoor pastimes like TV
and video games and most parents didnıt have the money to buy their children
expensive toys and pastimes. The common parental solution to seeing that
their children were "entertained" was the command: "go outside and play".
In those more rural times, before nearby thickets, groves, and creek
banks disappeared beneath waves of suburban development, that meant to spend
time in nature.
My parents also encouraged an interest in nature in other ways. The
natural world is something they valued, and they wished to pass this on to
me and my siblings.
My father came from countless generations of farmers and never forgot
this legacy. He returned to the farm each summer, the whole family in tow.
Those were happy summers indeed, summers in which I came to know my fatherıs
love of the land and its bounty.
Farming in those days was more diversified and less driven by
technology. Such terms as "agribusiness" had yet to be invented. The
family farm was a dairy farm, but included pigs, chickens, rabbits, bee
hives, peach and apple orchards, acres of corn, barley, and wheat, a large
vegetable garden, even a couple of horses that once pulled a plow.
It seemed a gentler kind of agriculture, making more room for nature.
The farm included extensive woodlots and brambly fencerows. The black rat
snake under the milking shed was welcomed as a needed mouser. Even an
occasional fox or raccoon in the chicken coup was accepted as part of the
natural scheme of things.
An example of this attitude is my Dad and his brother Carl sending me to
the upper pasture with Uncle Carlıs single-shot .22 to shoot a groundhog.
It wasnıt that they felt menaced by the groundhog -- itıs a rare event that
a cow ever breaks a leg stepping in a groundhog hole. They were feeling a
bit prankish and wanting to offer an adventure to a bored boy. They knew
the groundhog would outsmart me. And it did.
Equal to the influence on me of my fatherıs farming background was his
career as a chemist. The essence of science is curiosity, open-mindedness,
and experimentation, and the belief that nature is to be explored rather
than feared or ignored, values I learned at an early age.
The following recollection may help explain. When I was 10 or so I
found a hog-nosed snake on one of my woodland rambles and brought it home
for a pet. I keep it in the garage which was OK with my dad, that is, until
I brought it to the house to tease my mother who was afraid of snakes.
My misbehavior wasnıt punished nor the snake banished outright.
Instead, my father took me to meet a colleague who taught biology at the
same college where Dad taught chemistry. This man gave me a needed lecture
on snakes, and also encouraged an awakening interest in birds, a subject
much fonder to my Momıs heart. Shortly after, I released the snake where I
found it, realizing that wild animals donıt make good pets.
My interest in nature hadnıt been stifled -- and my knowledge of it had
gotten a boost -- and all because of the way my father handled the
My motherıs influence was at least as profound as my fatherıs. Her
education was in the humanities rather than science, the path which my own
career would one day take. From her I learned an appreciation of
literature, art, and history, and that it takes the soul of a painter or
poet as well as the mind of a scientist to fully experience nature.
She introduced me to poets such as Wordsworth, Keats, Bryant, Emerson,
and Whitman, who in enjoin us, in Wordsworthıs words: "Come forth into the
light of things,/ Let Nature be your teacher", and also to the world of
One of my most memorable boyhood trips was one to Washington, D. C.
Naturally, the high point was the museums on the Capital Mall. Dad took us
boys, me, Jim, and Bill, to the Smithsonian Museum of Natural History.
Meanwhile, Mom, pushing my little sister, Madilyn, in a stroller, went to
spend the afternoon in the National Gallery of Art.
I was of course enthralled with the reassembled dinosaur skeletons
towering over me, and dioramas of mounted animals from around the world.
But all the while I wondered what I was missing at the other museum.
Years later I found out, and spend many happy hours strolling through
art museums with my mother ... many happy hours of strolling through
shimmering forests, flowered meadows, and wheat fields created by Constable,
Monet, Corot, Van Gogh, and other artists.
Besides these memories of my parents are many more, of singing the old
songs at the piano, family trips, conversations around the kitchen table, my
Dadıs stories of his youth.
My parentsı impress on my life is a treasured gift. Although they are
deceased by many years, Iıd like to say: HAPPY MOTHERıS DAY MOM! HAPPY
FATHERıS DAY DAD!
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